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To get the most out of your session, it's important to be prepared. Fifteen minutes before our appointment, please sit still and
relax completely, clearing your mind as best you can. Breathe breathe breathe! Listen with your heart. Turn off all distractions, such as TV, radio and cell phone. Your
pet doesn't have to be with you, but it can be fun and informative to
watch
their behavior. I've let them know I'll be tuning in. Give them explicit permission to speak. |
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The more openly you're willing to listen and regard your pet as an individual, the more openly they'll communicate and possibly change unwelcome behaviours. Let go of animal stereotypes. Not every dog enjoys "fetch," not all cats hate water, and not every horse comes running to the sound of oats in a bucket.
Don't be afraid your pet will relate personal information that is not my concern. Animals are innocent and loyal. I relay what they tell me word for word. I sometimes don't catch their meaning, because they'll guard your privacy by using a "code" only you and they understand. For example, family nicknames or made-up words for familiar objects. Their lack of judgment and the simplicity of their needs is stunning. With behavioural issues, we can feel we are the only ones with "this problem." For example: If they're soiling or otherwise being destructive---this is very common---let's get it out in the open and see what we can do. I've cried over having to discard expensive items; I've heard or experienced, countless other forms of animal behavior. Sometimes, your pet's "problem" isn't a problem. For example, clients have tearfully disclosed that their bunny eats its own feces, or their solo Lovebird gets louder the harder they try to make it happy. This is normal for these species! I will refer you to resources to help you understand your pet's natural behaviors. Have questions ready. Be open to hearing the unexpected. I speak from the animal's point of view. Animals have colour preferences, crave unusual foods, and worry about things that wouldn't occur to you. They're sometimes hilariously funny, and have insights that will amuse and enlighten you. Participate in the discussion. Make the most of your session. Ask questions and comment. Appreciate that animals are acutely aware of relationship dynamics, and can be our great teachers. Animals live in a heightened state of awareness. Don't play "stump the telepath." It's beneath your dignity and mine. Your pet will pick up on your skepticism and shut down. I relay what your pet tells me, not an overall psychic photo of your life. Relax,
focus and open yourself to what your companion wants to communicate.
Sometimes it's mundane, sometimes it's profound. I look forward to meeting you and your animal companion! Warm regards, Reisa Mary Stone |
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